5 parenting habits that have a negative impact on children

 5 parenting habits that have a negative impact on children

Parents want their children to never suffer and always be happy. This is also natural. Who wants their children to be sad, tears falling from their eyes?

But in some cases, showing more love than necessary can also have a negative effect.

Showing children more love than necessary

Lebanese poet and writer Khalil Gibran has a famous saying, "Children come into the world through you, but they are not yours, they are the children of the world." Therefore, parents should love their children, but there should be limits to love.

For example, until the child can't walk and can't eat by himself, the parents have to do it. But even after the child is capable, you should not always hold him as your child, feed him, dress him, stay with him all the time. Because it may be love in the eyes of the parents, but the child may get angry at the parents. In the eyes of the child, such parents are villains.

So when the child is able to take care of himself, he should be allowed to mingle with his friends. It improves physical and mental development of the child.

The habit of externalizing anger in children

Some parents love their children more than they need, while some parents come to the house and vent their anger on the child. Instead of respect, fear, hatred and anger arise in the child's mind towards the parent who behaves like this. They feel insecure. Such negative thinking worsens the relationship between the child and the parent and also negatively affects their growth and development. Parents who show such behavior at home are considered bad.

Making the child too dependent on himself

The basic goal of every creature in the world is to make the child independent as soon as possible, but people delay because of emotions. Some parents try to control their children for a long time. It makes the child dependent on the parents for every little thing. Like- what to eat, what not to eat, who to make friends? Rather than parents, children should be encouraged to make decisions on their own.

Instead, you should listen to him carefully and give suggestions when he has some questions. By doing this, their confidence will increase and their decision-making ability will develop.

The habit of comparing with other children

It is human nature to compare with each other. Most of us are inspired to move forward by comparing ourselves to others. But sometimes the habit of comparing all the time can create negative thinking in the child's mind. In fact, comparing your child with other children seems to put unnecessary indirect pressure on him. By putting indirect pressure on him to be like others, the child begins to think of himself as inferior. If they fail in their career in the future, they can blame it on their parents.

Habits of talking less with children

As soon as the parents bring everything the child needs, they wonder what else is needed. They buy the things they want but talk to them, what is going on in his school? What is he interested in? What do you like or dislike? They do not try to understand or know that. Which is a very wrong habit. That's why you are not a good parent just because you have delivered the goods.

The habit of sitting in front of the child and using the phone

Parents tell children to do homework and study as soon as they come home from school. But the parents sit in front of them and enjoy watching the reel on their mobile phones, watching Tiktok videos or making videos. This makes children feel that they do not exist. They do not respect and respect their parents. Therefore, in order to be a role model for parents, they should spend time with their children without using their mobile phones while they are doing homework or studying.